The kids are grown (I have three - all amazing adults), and now I teach them what was never taught to me. I regularly share relationship advice with friends, colleagues, strangers, and clients. I’ve found what makes my heart sing with purpose, and here I am.

The algorithms don’t like the fact that I’m a faith-based clinical sexologist. I specialized in my practice years ago. Which always turns heads in a conversation, engages those I’m sitting next to at a dinner party, and brings the topic front and center at any networking event. “Sexologist? What’s that?”

Yes. I’m the one who gets shamelessly to the most intimate part of marriage - your sex life. Whoa! Who doesn’t want that? But here’s the deal, it’s highly unlikely you’ll be able to sustain that great sex life unless other parts of your relationship are healthy. Sex is a thermometer, it’s going to tell us what’s going on in the room. I’ve spent nearly another two decades learning how to read that thermometer and all the relational “rooms” that affect it.

Healthy love relationships happen when both people in that relationship are healthy, as they then work toward creating intentionally healthy love towards one another, in Christ. This is love in action.

It’s what I talk about, what I study, what I write about, and how I serve others in the body of Christ - creating healthy love. This is what I call The Business of Love, for sure! Welcome to my universe of science, faith, real life love.