the book
Date Ready by Tami Butler was written for singles who want to get themselves healthy first, then find a mate who is a good match! It has a companion journal, so you can note progress on your journey.

the game
If you’re ready to start dating, or are already in the singles scene, this is a fantastic tool to help you choose a compatible partner, and avoid wasting valuable time on unsuitable matches. It’s therapist and counselor recommended, plus it has a scoring model built into the card game so you can see where you are most and least compatible across ten key areas of relationship success.

the assessment
Once you pair up, and have been dating for at least 3 months, it’s recommended that you take the assessment to see how your relationship is flowing together. It’s also highly recommended for premarriage education. Couples who are already together and/or married will find it helpful to gain insight into what’s really going on behind the surface. It’s great to flush out current problems, find ways to work together in a healthier way, and also as an annual relationship “check-up”.